Stay Calm and Cooperate With Law Enforcement
When law enforcement officers arrive at the scene of a domestic violence incident, your actions can either protect or harm you. Stay as calm as possible and follow their instructions carefully. Even if you believe the situation is unfair or based on false allegations, this is not the time to argue or resist.
Focus on keeping yourself safe and giving your attorney the best chance to help you later.
Don’t Resist Arrest or Argue With Police
Resisting arrest by pulling away, yelling, or becoming physically aggressive can result in additional criminal charges beyond the original domestic assault or domestic abuse accusation. Police officers are trained to maintain control of the scene, and any perceived threat can escalate quickly.
It’s important to follow their directions, stay quiet, and avoid arguing, even if you believe the arrest is a mistake.
Anything You Say Can Be Used Against You
You have the right to remain silent for a reason. Anything you say to a police officer can be used later by the prosecution in court, even if it was said out of frustration, fear, or confusion. Admitting guilt, offering explanations, or discussing the incident without legal protection can seriously damage your defense. Stay quiet and wait for your lawyer.
Avoid Making Statements Without Legal Counsel
Do not answer any questions about the incident until you have spoken with a criminal defense attorney. It does not matter how minor the situation seems or how convincing the officer sounds; protecting yourself means staying silent.
Your attorney can help you understand the legal process, review the charges, and prepare the strongest defense possible. Speaking too soon could limit your options later.
Understand the Charges Against You
After a domestic violence arrest, it’s important to clearly understand what you’re being accused of. The type of criminal charges filed will affect your bail, possible sentence, and what you need to prepare for in court.
Some charges may be misdemeanors, while others may be serious felonies, especially if there are injuries or prior convictions. Learning the difference helps you and your attorney build the right defense.
Misdemeanor vs. Felony Domestic Violence
| Charge Type |
Description |
Possible Penalties |
| Misdemeanor |
Involves minor injuries, threats, or non-physical harm with no serious bodily injury or use of a weapon. First-time domestic violence charges often fall into this category. |
Up to 1 year in county jail, fines, domestic violence classes, and restraining orders. |
| Felony |
Involves serious bodily injury, use of a weapon, repeated offenses, or violations of restraining orders. California Penal Code §273.5 may apply. |
Several years in state prison, large fines, loss of gun rights, and a permanent criminal record. |
Ask for a Copy of the Arrest Report or Booking Sheet
You or your attorney should request a copy of the police report and the booking sheet from the arrest. These documents will outline what the police officer documented during the domestic violence incident, what probable cause was claimed, and what evidence law enforcement officers gathered.
Reviewing this paperwork helps your defense attorney challenge inaccurate information or spot weaknesses in the prosecution’s case.
Post Bail or Prepare for a Bail Hearing
After being arrested for domestic violence, the next major step is either posting bail or going before a judge for a bail hearing.
Bail gives you the chance to be released from jail while your case moves forward. If bail is not immediately set, the court will schedule a hearing to decide if you can be released and under what conditions.
Bail Amounts in Domestic Violence Cases
Bail amounts for domestic violence cases can vary widely depending on the severity of the charges, whether any bodily injury occurred, and if you have a past criminal history. In California, counties have their own bail schedules, but amounts typically range from $10,000 to over $50,000 for felony domestic assault cases. Judges may also increase bail if they believe the alleged victim faces imminent harm.
Bail Bonds and Conditions of Release
If you cannot afford to post the full bail amount, you may contact a bail bond agent who charges a non-refundable fee, usually 10% of the total bail.
Once released, you must follow all conditions of release. These may include avoiding contact with the complaining witness, staying away from your home, or surrendering firearms. Violating these rules can send you back to jail before trial.
Understand That a No-Contact Order May Be Issued
In many domestic violence cases, the judge will issue a no-contact order at the time of your release. This means you cannot reach out to the alleged victim in any way through phone calls, messages, social media, or through third parties. Violating a no-contact order can lead to new criminal charges and may cause the court to revoke your bail entirely.
Comply With All Court Orders Immediately
Once you’re released after a domestic violence arrest, the court will likely issue orders that must be followed without exception. These orders are not suggestions, they are legal commands that carry serious consequences if ignored.
Failing to follow court instructions can lead to new charges, stricter release terms, or even jail. Summit Defense Criminal Lawyers can help you understand every detail of these orders and avoid making a costly mistake.
No-Contact or Stay-Away Orders
In most domestic violence cases, a judge will issue a no-contact order or a stay-away order as part of the conditions for release. These orders forbid any direct or indirect contact with the alleged victim, even if they reach out to you first.
That means no texts, no emails, no social media messages, and no messages passed through friends or family members. Violating this order (even once) can result in immediate arrest and additional charges. The judge will treat the violation as a separate criminal offense, and it can negatively affect your current case.
Restrictions on Returning Home or Contacting the Victim
You may also be banned from returning to your home if the alleged victim lives there, even if your name is on the lease or deed. This can feel unfair, but the goal is to protect the alleged victim from any risk of further harm, whether or not there was actual violence.
The court’s priority is safety, not your comfort or property rights. If you need personal belongings, your lawyer can request supervised access. Do not attempt to return home or make contact on your own, as this can lead to immediate consequences.
Follow Release Conditions to Avoid New Charges
Along with no-contact orders, the court may place other rules on your release, such as checking in with an officer, staying within certain areas, or not drinking alcohol. These are part of your conditions of release, and breaking any of them (even by mistake) can lead to your bail being revoked.
That means you could go back to jail and stay there until your trial date. To protect yourself and strengthen your defense, follow every condition carefully and speak with your criminal defense attorney at Summit Defense if you have any questions or concerns.
Contact a Domestic Violence Defense Attorney Right Away
After a domestic violence arrest, you should reach out to a qualified criminal defense attorney as soon as possible. Waiting too long can hurt your case. The legal system moves fast, especially when someone is accused of domestic assault or other criminal charges involving a family member.
A skilled lawyer will explain the charges, review the evidence, help protect your rights, and begin building a strong defense. Summit Defense Criminal Lawyers has extensive experience with domestic violence charges and can help you through each part of the criminal justice system.
Having the right lawyer early on gives you the best chance to avoid a conviction, stay out of jail, and fight for your future.
Stay Off Social Media
In today’s world, it’s easy to forget that your online posts are public and permanent. But after being accused of domestic violence, your social media activity can quickly be used against you. Judges, prosecutors, and even law enforcement officers may review your accounts to gather information.
That’s why it’s critical to stay silent online and avoid posting anything related to the arrest or the people involved.
Anything You Post Can Be Used Against You
Photos, status updates, or even shared memes may seem harmless, but they can be taken out of context and used as evidence in court. For example, a photo of you out partying could be seen as showing you’re not taking the charges seriously.
Even if your social media is private, law enforcement can still obtain access in certain situations. It’s better to avoid posting altogether until your case is resolved.
Don’t Comment on the Case or Contact the Victim Publicly
Never post about your arrest or the domestic violence incident on Facebook, Instagram, or any other platform. That includes comments defending yourself, expressing frustration, or blaming the alleged victim. It may feel tempting, especially if you believe you’re the target of false allegations, but one post can damage your case.
Do not try to reach out to the complaining witness or family member through public comments, replies, or direct messages, this could violate a restraining order or domestic violence protection order and lead to new charges.
Talk to Your Attorney Before Sharing Anything Online
If you’re unsure whether something is safe to post, ask your attorney first. Your lawyer’s job is to protect you, and that includes helping you avoid mistakes that could hurt your defense. When you’re facing domestic violence charges, even a single online misstep can be taken seriously by the judge and used to argue that you’re a threat or that you don’t respect the law.
Until your case is over, silence is your best strategy online.
Prepare for the Court Process
After a domestic violence arrest, the legal steps that follow can be confusing and stressful. Understanding the court process ahead of time can help you feel more in control and allow you to make smart choices with your attorney.
Summit Defense Criminal Lawyers works closely with people accused of domestic violence to make sure they know what to expect and how to prepare. The decisions you make in the early stages, especially what plea you enter and how your case is handled, can shape whether your case ends quickly or goes to trial.
Arraignment and Entering a Plea
The arraignment is often your first court appearance after the arrest. During this hearing, the judge will read the domestic violence charges against you. You’ll also be asked to enter a plea: guilty, not guilty, or no contest.
If you are not fully clear on the consequences of each plea, your criminal defense attorney will help explain the options and recommend the best path. In many criminal cases, it’s common to plead not guilty at this stage to allow more time to gather evidence, review the police report, and develop a strong defense strategy.
Pre-Trial Hearings and Evidence Review
Before any trial date, you may attend multiple pre-trial hearings. These hearings are used to review the facts, check the evidence, and deal with motions from both your attorney and the prosecution. For example, your lawyer may file a motion to dismiss the case if there is weak proof or request that certain evidence be thrown out.
The judge may also make decisions about restraining orders, bail terms, or whether there is enough cause to move forward with the case. Your lawyer’s job is to challenge weak claims and raise reasonable doubt wherever possible.
Possible Plea Deal, Diversion Program, or Trial
In some domestic assault cases, the prosecutor may offer a plea deal, which is a chance to plead to a lesser charge in exchange for avoiding jail or receiving a lighter sentence. Other times, the court may allow a diversion program, especially for first-time offenders.
These programs might include community service, anger management, or treatment programs and could result in the charges being dropped after successful completion. However, if a deal isn’t offered (or if you and your lawyer decide the evidence doesn’t support a conviction), your case may go to trial, where the goal is to show you’re not guilty of the crime beyond a reasonable doubt.
FAQs
A domestic violence arrest can be overwhelming. You may feel confused, angry, or even scared, but how you respond in those first few moments can affect your entire case. Whether or not the allegations are true, it’s important to stay calm, think clearly, and avoid making choices that could hurt your defense later on.
If you’ve been arrested and are now facing domestic violence charges, you’re probably overwhelmed, scared, and unsure of what to do next. A single domestic violence incident can lead to serious consequences that affect your job, your family, and your future. It can also result in a criminal record, court dates, restraining orders, and even jail time. That’s why it’s critical to act quickly and choose the right defense.