Written by: Rabin Nabizadeh / Published date: November 11, 2017
If a restraining order has been filed against you in the Bay Area, the consequences are immediate and severe. A restraining order can restrict your freedom, limit contact with family members, remove you from your home, and create a permanent record that affects employment, housing, and custody rights. You have legal rights and defense options. Summit Defense represents respondents throughout the Bay Area to protect your rights, challenge unfounded allegations, and fight for the best possible outcome.
As a respondent, you face serious consequences including loss of firearm rights, removal from your home, mandatory domestic violence classes, and permanent court records. Summit Defense Criminal Lawyers has extensive experience defending respondents in Bay Area restraining order cases. We help you prepare a strong defense and work toward dismissal or modification of the order.
Some cases involve emotional distress, bodily injury, or threats from an intimate partner. Others involve a minor child or someone in a dating relationship.
Restraining Order Filed Against You? What Bay Area Respondents Need to Know
A Domestic Violence Restraining Order is a court order meant to protect someone from harm or threats in a domestic relationship. These orders can apply to partners, ex-partners, family members, or anyone with a personal relationship.
As a respondent, you have the right to respond to the allegations, present your side of the story, cross-examine the petitioner, present witnesses, and challenge the evidence. Many restraining orders are based on one-sided allegations and can be successfully challenged with proper legal representation.
The court decides which type of relationship counts. Keep reading to learn how these orders work, who can ask for them, and what they can do.
Consequences of a Restraining Order: What It Means for You
A Domestic Violence Restraining Order helps protect someone from abuse, threats, or harassment. It’s made to stop the accused from contacting or hurting the protected person again. These orders cover people in an intimate relationship, personal relationship, or domestic relationship, like spouses, partners, or parents.
The goal is to prevent further harm. This includes emotional distress, bodily injury, or threats of sexual abuse. The order sets limits to protect the petitioner's safety. It can stop the accused from coming near their home, work, or child’s school.
These orders can also protect a minor child living with the protected person. They can block the respondent’s access to firearms or require them to leave the shared home. Courts issue these orders in Family Court, Criminal Court, or a district court division -- depending on the case.
Many people get help from a domestic violence advocate, victim advocate, or Domestic Violence agencies to file and understand the process.
Your Rights as a Respondent in a California Restraining Order Case
You can ask for a Domestic Violence Restraining Order if someone close to you has harmed or threatened you. You must share a type of relationship with the person. This can be a dating relationship, sexual relationship, intimate partner, family member, or someone you live with.
You can request protection for yourself and for a minor child in your care. If you’re facing abuse as a senior, you can also seek protection for Elder Abuse. Some people request help through a guardian ad litem for a child or adult who cannot speak for themselves.
You don’t have to go through this alone. Domestic violence clinics and domestic violence protection order programs offer help. They provide assistance to individuals seeking protection, including assistance with preparation and legal services.
In emergencies, law enforcement officers or a police department can help request fast protection. The court decides based on the situation, even outside regular court hours if needed.
What Does a Restraining Order Do?
A restraining order creates legal rules the respondent must follow. If a restraining order is issued against you, it may include the following provisions:
Some orders require the accused to move out of a shared home. If children are involved, the court can order temporary child custody or temporary custody terms.
The judge may also ban the accused from having or buying guns. This includes possession of firearms, concealed firearms, or any firearm pursuant to court orders.
Breaking any of these rules has serious effects. The accused can face criminal charges, jail time, or even lose immigration status. The order becomes part of their record and may affect work or custody in the future.
Some people also use these orders as part of safety planning. Protected Persons can get help through address confidentiality services, wrap-around services, or a domestic violence advocate.
These provisions can have serious consequences for your employment, housing, child custody, gun ownership, and future opportunities. Defending against the order or seeking modification are critical legal strategies.
Types of Domestic Violence Protective Orders
There are several kinds of violence protective orders. Each one serves a different purpose depending on the risk and timing. Some are for emergencies. Others last longer after a court hearing.
Some of the types of domestic violence protection orders are:
Emergency Protective Order (EPO)
An Emergency Protective Order (EPO) is a short-term order issued quickly. Law enforcement officers or a law enforcement agency can request one if they believe someone is in immediate danger. It’s often issued after a domestic violence call.
Judges are available outside regular court hours to approve an EPO. These orders usually last five to seven days, giving the petitioner time to apply for a longer-term order.
EPOs can include no contact provisions, move-out orders, and stay-away orders. They may also limit the accused’s access to firearms. The goal is fast protection to prevent more harm or bodily injury.
If children are involved, the EPO may include terms for temporary child custody. The protected person may also receive help from a domestic violence advocate, who offers assistance with preparation for future hearings. Petitioners often use this time for safety planning and to explore legal services.
In the Bay Area, an EPO can be issued by law enforcement at any hour without a court hearing. EPOs issued in one Bay Area county are enforceable across all counties. An EPO typically lasts 5–7 business days, during which time the petitioner may seek a TRO.
Temporary Restraining Order (TRO)
A Temporary Restraining Order (TRO) is issued before the court makes a final decision. It offers protection until a future hearing. This is usually set within 20–25 days. Bay Area courts typically schedule the return hearing 14–21 days after a TRO is issued. This is the respondent’s first opportunity to challenge the TRO and present their defense.
TROs are based on a person’s request and can be filed using an online form, paper request form, or other application forms. Petitioners may also need to submit Protection Order Forms, additional forms, or a dismissal form if the case changes.
This type of order may include limits on contact, temporary custody, or even firearm restrictions. It helps prevent further emotional distress, threats, or abuse during the legal process.
The Notice of Hearing will list the court date and terms of the TRO. In some areas, virtual hearings may be available. Petitioners may get support from Domestic Violence agencies, domestic violence clinics, or a victim advocate.
Permanent Restraining Order
A Permanent Restraining Order is issued after a full court hearing. It usually lasts up to five years but can be extended. The court reviews evidence and hears both sides before making this decision.
This order often comes after a 10-day hearing, 60-day review hearing, or hearing after notice. It may include long-term rules like no contact provisions, custody and visitation limits, and bans on possession of firearms.
The court may also issue an award of custody entered into official records. If children are involved, the order can affect child custody and even require a guardian ad litem to be involved.
Permanent orders carry serious weight. Breaking them can lead to criminal charges, jail time, and issues with immigration status.
Petitioners may receive support through wrap-around services, address confidentiality services, or financial help from the Domestic Violence Center Fund.
Permanent orders in Bay Area courts typically last up to five years and can be renewed. They carry long-term consequences including loss of firearm rights, custody restrictions, and employment impacts.
Criminal Protective Order (CPO)
A Criminal Protective Order (CPO) is issued as part of a criminal case. It’s different from civil orders like a TRO or permanent order. A judge in Criminal Court issues a CPO when the accused faces criminal charges for abuse or threats.
CPOs are often used in cases involving sexual abuse, serious bodily injury, or threats against an intimate partner or minor child. These orders help protect the petitioner while the case is active.
They often include strict terms. These may include bans on contacting the protected person, having firearms, or living in the same place. If violated, the defendant may face extra charges or a motion for contempt.
Lawyers can request changes to a CPO based on new facts. Petitioners often work with a victim advocate or get assistance from persons seeking ongoing protection and legal advice.
How to Respond to a Restraining Order Petition in the Bay Area
Filing a domestic violence protection order gives legal protection to people in harm’s way. Courts allow people in many types of relationships to ask for help. Each case is different, and paperwork must be done correctly.
Who Can File
Anyone in a domestic relationship facing abuse, threats, or control can file. This includes people in a dating relationship, intimate relationship, or sexual relationship. You do not have to be married or live together. A personal relationship is enough if abuse is happening.
You can also file to protect a minor child or in cases of Elder Abuse. A guardian ad litem may help if the petitioner cannot file alone.
Some people file after help from a law enforcement agency, a victim advocate, or Domestic Violence agencies. Others get help from domestic violence clinics that offer assistance to persons seeking legal protection.
You may file through online services or in person. Forms may include an online form, paper request form, and Protection Order Forms. Additional help is available through legal services, address confidentiality services, or a domestic violence advocate.
What You Need to Know as a Respondent: Steps in the Process
Fill Out the Forms: Complete the required application forms, such as the paper request form, online form, and additional forms. These ask for details about your type of relationship, what happened, and what protection you need.
File the Forms in Court: Take your completed forms to the district court, Family Court, or Criminal Court, depending on your case. You can also file through online services if available.
Get a Temporary Order: The court may issue a Temporary Restraining Order (TRO) right away. This protects you until a future hearingis held. You’ll get a Notice of Hearing with the date and terms.
Service of Process: A third party, often the police department or a law enforcement agency, must give the forms to the other person. This is called service of process and is required for the case to move forward.
Attend the Hearing: Go to court for a 10-day hearing, 60-day review hearing, or hearing after notice. Bring any proof or witnesses. You may also attend virtual hearings if allowed.
Final Decision: The judge will decide whether to give a long-term order. If granted, terms may include temporary custody, limits on access to firearms, and more.
Restraining Order FAQs
What should I do if a restraining order has been filed against me in the Bay Area?
If a restraining order has been filed against you, do not ignore it or violate any of its terms — even if you believe the allegations are false. Violating a restraining order is a separate criminal offense under California Penal Code 273.6, punishable by up to one year in county jail. Your first step should be to contact a Bay Area restraining order defense attorney who can review the petition, help you file a timely response, and prepare your case for the court hearing. At Summit Defense, we represent respondents in restraining order cases throughout the Bay Area, including courts in Santa Clara County, San Francisco County, Alameda County, and surrounding jurisdictions. We work to protect your rights and fight for dismissal or modification of the order.
Can I fight a domestic violence restraining order in California?
Yes. As a respondent, you have the legal right to contest a domestic violence restraining order at the court hearing. You can present evidence, call witnesses, cross-examine the petitioner, and challenge the claims made in the petition. Many restraining orders are based on one-sided allegations, exaggerated claims, or misunderstandings . A skilled restraining order defense lawyer can expose inconsistencies and weaknesses in the petitioner's case. Summit Defense has experience defending respondents in Bay Area family courts and criminal courts and works aggressively to get restraining orders denied, dismissed, or modified.
How does a restraining order affect my custody rights in California?
A restraining order can have a significant impact on child custody. Under California Family Code 3044, if a domestic violence restraining order is granted against you, the court presumes that awarding you sole or joint custody is not in the child's best interest. This means you may face restricted visitation, supervised visitation, or temporary loss of custody. The restraining order can also be used against you in ongoing family court proceedings. That is why it is critical to fight the order early with an experienced Bay Area restraining order lawyer. Summit Defense helps respondents challenge these orders to protect their parental rights and custody arrangements.
What are the long-term consequences of a restraining order on my record?
Even though a civil restraining order is not a criminal conviction, it creates a court record that can follow you for years. A domestic violence restraining order in California can result in the loss of your right to own or possess firearms under both state and federal law, negative impacts on employment opportunities and professional licensing, difficulty securing housing, and disadvantages in custody and divorce proceedings. The order is also entered into the California Law Enforcement Telecommunications System (CLETS), making it visible to law enforcement statewide. If you are facing a restraining order petition in the Bay Area, hiring a defense attorney early gives you the best chance of avoiding these long-term consequences. Contact Summit Defense for a free consultation.
Do I need a lawyer to defend against a restraining order in the Bay Area?
You are not legally required to have an attorney, but defending against a restraining order without one puts you at a serious disadvantage. The petitioner may have legal representation or support from a domestic violence advocate, and the court process involves strict deadlines, procedural rules, and evidentiary standards that are difficult to navigate alone. A restraining order defense lawyer from Summit Defense can review the allegations against you, gather evidence to support your case, prepare you for testimony, and advocate for you at the hearing in Bay Area courts, including those in San Jose, San Francisco, Oakland, Redwood City, and other jurisdictions we serve. Call Summit Defense at 866-847-7613 for a free, confidential consultation about your case.
Can a restraining order be modified or terminated early in California?
Yes. Under California law, either party can request that a restraining order be modified or terminated before it expires. As a respondent, you can file a motion to modify or dissolve the order if circumstances have changed, for example, if the petitioner no longer opposes contact, if you have completed court-ordered programs, or if the original allegations have been disproven. The court will consider whether the modification serves the safety interests of all parties involved. Summit Defense helps Bay Area clients petition for early termination or modification of restraining orders to restore their rights and move forward with their lives.
Contact Our Bay Area Restraining Order Defense Lawyers
If you or someone you know is facing abuse, don’t wait. Summit Defense Criminal Lawyers helps people protect their safety and defend their rights. Whether you need to file a Domestic Violence protection order or defend yourself against one, we’re here to help.
We understand how these cases can impact child custody, employment, and even your immigration status. Our team works with domestic violence advocates, reviews each case carefully, and fights for the best outcome.
You don’t have to face this alone. We offer assistance to individuals seeking help, from filing forms to appearing in court. If you’re accused, we also build strong defenses, especially in cases involving false claims, emotional distress, or lack of evidence.
Call us today. Let us protect your future and help you move forward safely.
Rabin Nabizadeh
Attorney At Law
Rabin Nabizadeh is a dedicated criminal defense attorney with extensive experience in both Federal and State courts. He has successfully represented clients in cases ranging from Misdemeanor DUI and Theft to serious felonies such as Grand Theft, Burglary, Sex Crimes, and Murder. Notably, Mr. Nabizadeh possesses a unique understanding of Immigration Law, allowing him to adeptly navigate cases with both criminal and immigration consequences. Fluent in Hebrew and Farsi, he also enjoys playing classical guitar in his spare time.
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